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Thursday, April 30, 2020
Experience of my friend during the 'SEAL DOWN' of their neighbourhood!
Tuesday, April 21, 2020
Day 28 of Lock-down - My Travelogue!
Sunday, April 19, 2020
Day 26 of Lockdown!
One of those things happened to me while surfing the net (YouTube), inadvertently.
Hold your horses! What I have in mind, to click and clutter my screen, is just not what you are imagining!
Intrigued? Hmmm, thought so!
Well, this was what I had in my mind and letting loose from my grey cells.
I chanced upon a few Korean soapies and thought, what the heck? Let me give it a go. Anyways, they all had the option of subtitles in English (for people like me) and so I started to watch their soapies and tried to compare it with ours. Not that I am a big fan or critic of Indian soapies. But to my limited knowledge of watching them, on and off compulsorily, I was just curious.
To my utter surprise, I watched so many of their soapies non-stop, not just over these days but also prior to that. Man, there are some serious Rom-Coms, Action, Thrillers, Historical, Sci-Fi, et al. and believe me, these are produced very well covering all genres.
Most of these soapies are of 16-20 episodes of which many are further stripped into parts of an episode around 20min each. You can go on binge-watching these episodes on YouTube, if you activate the Auto Play feature. They even have short stories and dramas too.
What really struck me, on viewing over a number of episodes from a variety of soapies, is the fact that the Koreans have a very strong affinity for their culture and tradition. Also, they address their parents in the way very similar to us; e.g. for mother they call “Umma” and for father, it is “Appa”, which surprised me a lot.
In all of those I watched, there was a respect to the tradition, be it;
- Sitting on the floor for eating breakfast, lunch or dinner (only those that exhibited lifestyle of the ultra-rich showed dining tables),
- Display of respect to elders and guests,
- Changing the footwear used outside the house to the ones for use indoors only, right at the entrance of the main door, etc.
- Accepting a drink (including tea) from any person with both hands,
- Not drinking with your face to the elder or senior but by turning your face to the side not visible to the elder/senior,
This is in sharp contrast to what we exhibit in our soapies, at least to my limited knowledge of these across various genres. Except where the central theme is around rural or semi-rural background, all other soapies ooze unnecessary grandeur and unrealistic costumes, particularly of the female cast, which not only confuses the viewers but are way off from reality. Agreed, our costume directors for these soapies, base their creation on what is warranted by the producers and directors of these productions and also ape the ideas from other regional soapies. After all, we have umpteen languages and the TV channels have to cater to all these languages.
Well, many of the traditions have long gone into thin air as a heavy dose of ‘Westernisation’ has swayed us and made us question everything that our culture had, innately. The current scenario of lockdowns and emphasis on personal hygiene and social distancing is proving to be a chance to make people understand that these were the exact hygienic values our forefathers and ancestors had bequeathed us but in the garb of modernisation, we have lost all these by the wayside.
Saturday, April 18, 2020
Repercussions of COVID-19 pandemic on normal life!
Friday, April 10, 2020
Day 17 of Lockdown!
Some of the pics of this great historical monument:



We then drove down to his unit, ‘Chiselmet’, where he showcased us the painstaking process of restoring these fittings and fixtures like dados, panelling and cladding, tiling, etc.
Some of the pics are below, courtesy Vimal’s Chiselmet:





Monday, April 6, 2020
My experience in Durban during Durban July Event - circa 2013!
While sifting
through various photos, from my avatar at South Africa, this one struck me
right in my heart and made me realise what patriotism is all about.
Date: Sunday,
July 7, 2013.
Event: Post
Durban July, a prestigious, annual horse racing event at Durban, South Africa.
Location:
Mt. Edgecombe Golf Resort, Durban.
Chronicle:
Compliments
from one of our major suppliers, I had the opportunity to visit Durban July, a
prestigious annual horseracing event normally held on the first Saturday of
July. Hence it is aptly named and famous as ‘Durban July’ event.
This is
one event where “All Roads Lead to Durban”!
Who-is-who of
the country’s elite, celebrities, newsmakers and kingmakers alike, top
businessmen and business executives, bankers and the like, can’t resist this
event for all the money in the world.
Glitz
and Glamour abound,
Dresses
that cause traffic jam around,
Unique
marquees of hosts that surround,
Makes
one who is not used to these events, spellbound!
That said
about the event, my colleagues and I flew to Durban on 5th July
afternoon. We were joined by some more client representatives of our supplier
and were driven down to this lovely Golf Estate at Mt. Edgecombe, where the
Manager, Karl (a German gentleman, perhaps in early sixties), welcomed us with
a drink and ushered us to our rooms.
After a quick
snooze, I went down to see if I can get any company to while away my time.
Luckily, our host Michael and his lovely family (wife – Kate, son - Paul and
daughter - Stephanie) were there along with others as well and we hit off like
old family friends. That they jelled with us very well is an understatement.
What started
off with tea and coffee with some cookies soon graduated to beer and spirits as
we moved outdoors into the open area, bordering the golf course and had a
campfire lit to get the evening mood right and then, the guzzling went on till
late in the night. Cautious with my drinks that I always am, I spaced my drinks
well enough to let my liver do its job of metabolising the liquid and thereby
remain sober, despite couple of multiple drinks.
Michael’s
children, being under-aged for drinks, remained satisfied with fruit punches
and mock-tails and nibbled on the short-eats.
Couple of
hours after sundown followed by sumptuous dinner, couples started leaving the
place wishing each other good night as they were afraid to oversleep or wake up
with a bad hangover and mess enjoying the big event, next day. Couple of us stags,
stayed well into the late night and Michael and Paul played impeccable hosts in
giving us company till we called it a night!
Just as we
went inside and got into a mood for a night-cap of Liqueur, one of the guests,
whose wife had already retired for the night, came walking zigzag and we
realised that he had not just one, but two too many. He was insisting us to
take him to some nightlife spots in Durban, where he can indulge himself.
With just Michael
and Paul besides me and this gentleman, we did some quick thinking and I nodded
at Michael and said ‘let’s go’! Michael got the clue and told Paul to drive us
around as I didn’t want to risk driving under influence.
So off we
went, Paul, this gentleman and I in search of elusive nightlife in that part of
Durban! Since I had already hinted Paul, he drove us in circles as the
gentleman sitting in the rear seat, a bit drowsy by now, started to tell us
where to go. He kept blabbering that we are hoodwinking him and not taking him
to the right spots and insisted that we drive according to his directions.
We went round
and round from Mt. Edgecombe to Umhlanga and back many times. By this time our
friend in the back seat was close to dozing off and had kept quiet.
All the
while, I was talking to Michael and Stephanie (she was a very worried little
girl about her big brother and naturally so) and kept assuring them of our
safety.
Couple of
kilometres on the clock and a few liters of fuel burnt, we returned to the
resort, at last, much to the relief of Stephanie, Kate and Michael. We helped
the gentleman to his room and Michael, Kate and Stephanie thanked me for safe
return. Paul narrated the story in brief and we all had such a hearty laugh at
the gentleman’s expense before retiring for the night.
Next morning,
post exchanging pleasantries, the gentleman and his wife avoided us like poison
ivy as they just finished their breakfast in a jiffy and off they went to change
over to their fancy dresses. The rest of us had a leisurely breakfast before we
went to change our outfits and boarded shuttle to reach the Greyville race course,
well in time before the first race started, to savour the hospitality in the
host’s marquee.
What went on
at the event was just about extraordinary stuff with a plethora of food that
satisfied every palate, drinks of every kind flowed copiously, entertainment –
out of the world, excellent races (I never bet though and have never done so),
the hospitality was impeccable and I am sure we all enjoyed thoroughly.
Since it was
winter time in South Africa and the sun had set early in the afternoon (Durban
is in the east coast of South Africa), post noon races were under floodlights.
This gave a different dimension to the event and;
We had
joy, We had fun; and
We
frolicked even after Sun
Even after
the last race was flagged down, we still weren’t ready to call it a day.
However, all good things must end and hence we returned by shuttle, dragging
our feet, around 9 in the night, relishing every second of the time we spent at
the event. I couldn’t even guess as to how many drinks I polished off over a
period of 8-9 hours and so did many others.
On the whole,
it was a memorable event as we stayed put in the Golf Resort for one more night
before we packed to return to our bases. Spent out our last bit of energy, we
just had enough strength to say goodnight and dashed to our rooms to go flat
out on our beds.
Next morning
was a different story. As we gathered around for breakfast, the hosts thanked
each of us for our presence and bid farewell appropriately. The gentleman and
his wife were, naturally, ill at ease and were squirming on their chairs.
To me, Michael
and his family hold a special place in my heart as they took great care of me
right from the time we landed till bidding farewell. Not for just making me
feel comfortable by conversing in English only, as I was the only alien amongst
their fellow countrymen but also for the simple reason that I being a
vegetarian, they had gone out of the way in selecting choicest vegetarian food
and snacks.
Thanks a ton Michaels!
May God bless you all!
The hosts
came to see us off as we were told our transportation to shuttle us to the airport,
was waiting for us. Karl had arranged a surprise of mammoth proportions, for
me, as we came out to board the shuttle.
Crux of
the Story:
Friday, April 3, 2020
Day 10 of Lockdown in India!
Helping out an old couple, stranded in Mumbai Airport.
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